Sylvia, what in the world would you like to change about yourself? Becoming less empathetic, caring less about horror or greed or brutality? Surely not. I had escaped apartheid South Africa 55 years ago, and this morning started to read comedian Trevor Noah’s autobiography “Born A Crime.” By the time I got to page 2 my vision was blocked by tears of remembrance. I have a wonderful life, but perhaps I’m aware of it because of my experiences. You’ll swim again!